Helps you “get off the fence.”
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
This book is a great tool for someone trying to decide if they should “stick in there” and work on the relationship, or move on and get on with your life. I personally have been in marriage counseling off and on for more than 10 years. This book has given me more clarity and peace about the situation than even the counseling. I feel that it is neutral – it doesn’t seem slanted towards or away from divorce. It provides practical, logical questions for you to answer and get real about your situation. It gives 36 diagnostic questions for you to plow through and think about. In addition it gives examples of individual stories of people who have “been there” regarding the topic at hand.

I feel this is a practical, logical book to help you get off the fence and either spur you on to invest more in a relationship that has hope, or gives you clarity that it might be better to move on.

Not useful to me
Rating:2 out of 5 stars
This book was too full of generalities and things that if you are in this situation you have already considered and weighed out for yourself. It did not help at all.

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
Rating:1 out of 5 stars
This book is written to ruin a persons life…. It says keep going leave the one who loves you and does not mention kids, and how they are treated in this selfish act. I would only recomend this book to someone who I wanted to have a bad life. leaving someone who loves you and your family just because you are “unhappy” come on. that is normal for all relationships. I bet the author cheated on their spouse, and was stuck between selfishness and loyalty. and wrote this book to make them feel ok to leave.