Relationships Matter

This guide to self-discovery through intimate relationships offers a spiritual perspective on healing childhood wounds and destructive patterns that are learned early on and later cause relationship dysfunction in adulthood.

User Reviews about Be the Person You Want to Find: Relationship and Self-Discovery

Last year,I took part in an amazing training for myself and in this training,I met a woman,I should say goddess,a radiate beauty who spoke to me three words that I have been wanting to hear for a very long time.
Now come to here-I found that it was not meant to be and the pain that came and overtook me.
I came to find this book and now I can say I am on my way to creating that relationship.
Cheri's words and her insight,tells us that it's the condition that causes the pain and suffering,for looking to to outward response is what the trip wire for those who have been in a relationship and has fallen out of it.
Simply stated in words that go to the heart and then the mind. By being still and knowing we are in that stillness we can see ourselves as who we are,that light of love and not to look for the outer response,it all goes to the simple way-To create and have the realtionship you ever wish for,look at yourself,love yourself,be with yourself,understand yourself and be kind yourself.
A true blessings of a book.
Cheri,Thank You
Namaste
-- Healing A Heart

The basic idea is to quit expecting other people to make you happy, and take care of your own needs. This books gives you insight on how to do that within your couple. It can also lead you to clues of how you keep making the same relationship mistakes...keeping yourself dissatisfied through the years... -- valuable insight

Very insightful and also very short -- which makes it easy to review and refresh your memory and adjust your habits. While it is useful at improving relationships, its usefulness goes far beyond that. It helps guide a readers in adjusting their lives life to be more in accordance with who they "really" are; that is, it helps people disarm their various fears, anxieties, or defense mechanisms and live more authentically and rewardingly.

In an Amazon review of "Get out of Your Mind & into Your Life," I suggested Huber's book as a companion. I guess I should also do the reverse and recommend that book as a companion to this book.

I also recommend Lorne Ladner's "The Lost Art of Compassion," which blends Western and Buddhist psychology in very insightful ways.

I have found these three books personally very useful. -- More than a relationship book

This book has lots of great information that is told in a very entertaining way. Highly recommended. -- A Fun Read